Understanding Urgency

How Urgency Shows Up

  • People often feel intense pressure to act when something is happening with their pet.

  • That pressure can come from two very different places.

  • Learning to tell the difference can change how decisions feel.

Emotional urgency

  • Feels immediate, overwhelming, and hard to tolerate

  • Often driven by fear, responsibility, or not wanting to fail your pet

  • Creates pressure to do something now

Medical urgency

  • Based on physiology, timing, and risk

  • Requires prompt medical action

  • Usually becomes clearer when emotions settle, not louder

When emotional urgency is mistaken for medical urgency, decisions feel rushed and heavy.

This work helps slow things down so the difference becomes clearer.

This distinction is a central part of how I work.

Clarity often comes from slowing and pacing, not pushing.